sobota, 17 października 2020

You cannot rule the world, but you can rule your mind, but what else is world

All you knowledge about you sit in your head, but what if it isn't true?
Every little single second influences your beliefs about the world and people in the subconscious way, whether you want it or not.  

poniedziałek, 20 kwietnia 2020

The words you keep in your head are actually quite important

Second by second, minute by minute, day after day, more and more thoughts come to our head... even though we may attempt to stop the process, usually it brings little effect.

While we don't have influence on that we think, we may have impact on what do we think about.


Have you ever heard about law of attraction? Oh yes, I'm sure you did. On the internet there is plenty of information about getting what we want only by using a power of our thinking. Sounds too easy, right? well, nonetheless,  our thinking is much more important that we usually consider it to be. 
Emotions that human beings experience is one of a major forces that put them into action. And if emotions are caused by what we think, then a thought is also a force.
Let me explain this to you by describing a hypothetical situation.
A sad thought come to our head, maybe we didn't want it but here it is, now, in our head, with us. It came unannounced,  but it's our choice whether we will let it stay or just let it go. And the reason why we shouldn't focus on those sad thoughts is because it can lead us in a bad frame of mind. And the consequences of bad mood are widely known - it can induce us to actions that bring unwanted results or cause no actions at all...
That's why we should try to create pleasant thoughts in our head, that lead us in better mood. A person in a good mood is more likely to be optimistic about the life and this is a reason why we should try our best in creating high-quality thoughts, so our mood and thus experiences are worth living.  The subjective state produces an objective state.To conclude, everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is just one way to find it. It starts in our head - happiness doesn't come from outside. It depends on what is within us.

czwartek, 26 marca 2020

Tomorrow is not granted so make the best of today

Nothing happens without a reason and our life is not only about good moments.
As i see it  - there is really nothing wrong with that. The bad times approach us to in order to show us something very significant. Our generation lives in particularly good times and our values changed over time as well. It is hard for us to imagine that we may don't have food in the fridge, a place to sleep or even the privilege to take a shower. It is hard for us to imagine that we can't say what we want to say... that we don't have right to express our opinion. That we don't have our FREEDOM. The first place of family and friends was replaced by money, career and material things.  The "fast life" is chasing us everywhere. We live fast  die "fast", we are afraid of death because actually we had never truly lived. 
Now is the time to stop and think for a second... eventually we will die, everybody will, this is one fair thing in our existence. That the fact we are here today is a GIFT and nobody have ever promised us TOMORROW. Without experiencing the bad moments we would never be able to appreciate the good one.
Take your time, stop and think about the things you can be thankful for... and i'm not saying as a "life couch" but as a normal human being. 
Don't wait for the bad moments to appreciate the life. Start from today...The is no need to give up all you have and travel into unknown.. the secret lies in the simplicity. Wake up and be thankful that one more day is given to you. That you can think, breathe, enjoy, love, work, and finally - for the fact that you're alive. Even if you haven't completed your "to do list" yet and it looks like always everybody is more productive than you. Even if the weather sucks and the soup was too salty again...  ;) 
hug your loved one little tighter, kiss longer, smile more, don't worry so much, don't focus on material things, appreciate the people you have in your life, just live the moment, because after all, it is all you have, all you have is...
NOW.